2011年8月11日木曜日

The best way of communication?

Sometimes, we want to persuade people that we are right.
In order to do so, we try to be logical.
And in this case, we want to deliver only what we mean.
In other words, we don't want others to expand what we've said.

Sometimes, we want to entertain others by our words.
In order to do so, we try to use ambiguous words or to imply many things in our words.
And in this case, we want to deliver not only what we want to but what we don't really mean.
Strictly speaking, we want people to understand those words in their own way.
In other words, we might encourage people to expand what we've said according to their own lives.

Even only this proves that there is no such a thing as the best way of communication.
Your way of communication is what you've got and often leads to what you want to get in the relationships.
There are heaps of information about ways of communication: this says this, and that says that.
Don't care and follow what you really think is important in communication.
At least, I'll follow this because my way of communication is what I've got through my life so far, which has given a lot of benefit to me.

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